Evangeline Lily: A Loner Who Totally Gets Polyamory

Lost’s Evangeline Lilly is perfectly happy to be on her own, thank you very much:
“I have been a loner since I was 12 years old, so I’ve never been social. My social life is very limited, but that’s how I want it. My personal life has never been very exciting or interesting.”
Is it a curse, or a blessing?
“I’m fine with being solitary. On an average work day, I get up in the morning, I go to work, I come home, I make myself dinner, I sit down and go through my bills, and then I go to bed. And if I have a day off, I spend all day running errands and checking emails. I’m never hanging out with people. “It’s a real struggle for me. I’m very independent and I do well on my own. I’m always on my own and I don’t get lonely. I love it.”
There is less drama when you are a loner that’s for sure. But she is open to change:
“It’s been my goal to socialise more this year, because I’m the ultimate geek when it comes to socialising!”
I can totally relate to this. I’m much better one on one or alone and I’m perfectly happy. In my basement.
So will being a loner be a problem should she settle down with on-again, off-again co-star and boyfriend Dominic Monaghan or does she have bigger issues:
“I have such a huge capacity for love. I have always had a really hard time not loving people. I can meet a complete stranger and feel love for them. So for me, I can imagine loving two different people – but I don’t think I have the capacity for that because it would require so much of me. Everyone else seems to believe it is possible, so who am I to question this? If everyone says you can love two people, then you can love two people.”
She even tested her ‘loving two people’ theory on her Lost castmates:
“I actually went around the set and interviewed people saying things like, ‘Do you think it’s possible to truly, genuinely love two different people or does that deny the reality of what love is supposed to be? Is that negating what true love is all about?’ And unanimously I’ve had people say, No, I do believe you can genuinely be in love with two different people at the same time.”
Do you think it’s possible to love or be in love with two people at the same time?
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