Kat Von D was the first (and only) person to sincerely give Jesse James a chance after the world turned on him for serial-cheating on wife Sandra Bullock.

She really wanted to believe he could change his ways and approached that relationship with an open heart and open arms. Jesse James screwed Kat Von D over too. With 19 women!!!! NINE-TEEN. Why get engaged in the first place if you need to screw everything that moves?

What a shame, but kudos to Kat Von D for not being bitter. She wrote Jesse James a thank you letter on her Facebook page. How many of us would be as gracious and eloquent in the same circumstances? (I would have lobbed his nuts off):

Never have I felt so strong about True Love, than I do today.  I believe in Love more than anything else, and more than ever before. 

Today I encountered the 19th girl to add to the list of people Jesse cheated on me with during this last year.  

 I kept going back and forth in my mind as to what the best way would be for me to release and let go of any residual feelings remaining from that toxic relationship.  All of this may sound petty or immature to some, but I assure you this is coming from a place of pure honesty and love. 

There was a time when I was confident and excited at proving the world wrong, because I believed so deeply in people's ability to change for the better.  Although this was not a primary purpose in the relationship, I did feel like it would be a positive thing for those who judged Jesse solely based on what they read in tabloids, to see that change is always possible – even in the people who seem hopeless.

I still believe that, even if that change never occurs inside of him - because I see proof of change everyday – in others, and in myself.  

I'm far from perfect, but am willing to examine myself, and my patterns of dysfunction, and then put in the work to better myself.  It's a daily practice, but it’s working.

Sure, its easy to tell someone, "I told you so” especially if you're criticizing someone from the outside, but that attitude comes from a place called Ego, and not Love.  

I know I deserve a big fat  "I told you so,” from everyone, and wish I didn't have to say, "You all were more right than you'll ever know” but you were.

Not to worry, I've gladly paid the consequences for every mistake I've ever made, but learned so much from each of them. 

Yes, I am pretty tired of getting mistaken for the girl who everyone believes to have broken up Jesse and Sandra's marriage, just because I have black hair and tattoos like that other gal.  That does get a quite annoying at times, and it would be nice to not be associated with her, but that's trivial in the grand scheme of things.

I think it just made me sad today to imagine him still in that dark place – where seeking validation through the attention of women takes precedence over being a good father, a sincere friend, a better coworker, and a happy individual.  

I tried my best to go through all of this without venting, or complaining, or fueling more tabloid mumbo jumbo – but this isn't about any of that.

This is about me making peace with myself, and forgiving myself for making some bad mistakes. 

 I don't want to sink into the feelings of regret, or resentment.  

 Because right now, for the first time in my life I have felt regret,  (for someone like me, who's never felt that before, this is hard to say out loud).

Time is something you can never get back, and what we do with this very present moment is the most real thing we have. So if that's the lesson Jesse forced me to face and learn by all of this, than all I can say is Thank You.

It would be nice to move on now, and kindly thank you all in advance for your support, love, and positivity.

Life is far too grand to focus on the negative and put each other down. 

Sending Love and Light to everyone, especially those who weren't always so kind,

Kat Von D

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Would you have been able to be so eloquent? I have a newfound respect for Kat Von D!

Kat Von D - Jesse James Tattoo

Kat Von D doesn’t seem to care that her ex fiance’s 5th grade face is on her ribcage permanently.  She’s keeping it there.  She apparently has another ex somewhere on her flesh as well.  That is just plain weird.  Girl has issues.  I’d be lasering that crap off quick!  Oh wait, I never would have gotten it in the first place.

She said,

“I love my tattoo” — adding, “It’s more than just a portrait, it has a lot of meaning.”

What do you think?  Is she nuts, or just loves some good ink?

Kat Von D makes a heart with Jesse James

In case you were wondering if Jesse James and Kat Von D really did breakup, it’s not true.  The inked up couple are still going strong and the wedding plans are still on track.

Jesse James is STILL Rambling People. Are You Listening?

“That is absolutely not true,” says James, 42, bristling at Internet reports that he’s split from the LA Ink star. “We’re still going strong. Things are completely good with us.”

She adds,

“That’s the furthest thing from the truth.”

Jesse is stoked on their upcoming wedding next summer, on their anniversary,

“That day can’t come soon enough!” he says.  “Everything is on track.  I am absolutely more in love today than I was a year ago. She’s the one for me.”

Well goody. Can’t wait to see this one fall apart. Can you say ‘Bad Romance’?

Photo: WENN

Jesse James signs copies of his new book 'American Outlaw'

Famous cheater, Jesse James is still rambling about himself because for some reason, the media keeps asking him questions. This time he blabbed to Men’s Journal about his infidelity.

Jesse James’ Ex Posts Bail, Free To Stalk

“I never shied away from anything I did. I took full responsibility. I cheated on my wife. Guess what? So do millions of other men.”

I’d like to interject that millions of husbands don’t cheat on their wives as well.

He continues,

“To be honest, it was unfair for me to even be in a relationship. I sabotaged everything. I was never 100 percent in. I’m self-destructive. I made some seriously f*cked-up choices.”

After the cheating hit the news, Jesse fled to rehab,

“I was an animal in a cage. I needed to escape before I cracked up or did something really stupid. I don’t know why I went. I just needed help,” he told the mag. “I went in thinking, ‘All these people in this place? They are really f*cked-up.’ I figured out pretty fast I was the f*cked-up one. I realized I was addicted to anger. And it was going to be up to me to straighten my sh*t out.”

After completing the therapy, “it was profound, what happened to me in Tucson. My life kind of started over. I hit the reset button. On everything.”

Then he hooked up with Kat Von D.

“Back when I was listening every day to some new person say what a f*ck-up I was, I hit the wall. I had a day where I was literally wondering how much more of this I could take. And one person reached out,” he recalls. “Guess who that was? Everyone else thought I was toxic. The fact that Kat is willing to be with me now? And get demonized in the tabloids for it? God, I really love her.”

I guess I just wonder what they will both say when he cheats on her? He can say you were warned and she won’t be able to deny it, right?

Photo: WENN

Jesse James‘ crazy ex-wife, Janine Lindemulder posted bail yesterday and was released from the jail in Austin, TX, according to TMZ.

I think that if she isn’t going to be locked up in jail, she should have her phone taken away.  Or at least blocked to only make emergency calls. She’s a NUT job!  And I am not one to defend Jesse James.  He’s a piece of crap.  But that woman shouldn’t be calling him 300 times!

Jesse James’ Ex Arrested For Harassment Scary MUGSHOT

She is due back in court March 11 to face the charges for harassment.

I wonder if Jesse James is turning off his phones and ordering extra security?  I would be!

Photos: TMZ

Jesse James‘ ex Janine Lindemulder was arrested this morning for harassing Jesse by leaving him a bunch of abusive phone messages. And by a bunch I mean 300 or so.

Jesse turned over tapes of the alleged harassment and she was arrested by the Hays County Sheriff’s Department with three outstanding arrest warrants.

According to TMZ:

“chronic harassing telephone calls to all hours of the day and night.” He says he has received 300 calls just since he moved to Texas. In the docs, Jesse says the calls became “so harassing, abusive and bad” that he turned over several messages to the Austin Police Department.

I am not too proud to admit that if I met this byotch in an alleyway, I would crap my pants. Seriously. Imagine being in a bar and realizing you’ve pissed her off  and how frightening that would be?

Michelle ‘Bombshell’ McGee Says Jesse James Was ‘Average’

Jesse James and Kat Von D Are Engaged

Call me crazy, but she doesn’t look so remorseful in that booking photo. In fact, she looks really determined and a bit vengeful. True, I don’t know her, but that look is scary. ‘Fear Not’ tattoo only reinforces that.

Photo:  TMZ

So if he’s not even good in bed, what’s the appeal?  Jesse James‘ former mistress, Michelle “Bombshell” McGee is outing her former lover as being “average” in the bedroom.

Jesse James and Kat Von D Are Engaged

She blabbed on The Wendy Williams Show yesterday,

“It was kind of weird…he asked me to sit on the couch next to him and watch a movie,” said the mom of two. “It was very 12-year-old and he kind of did the whole like reaching around and that’s where he started kissing me…it was very awkward.”

You know who she wants to hook up with now?  Sandra Bullock!  WTF?

“I love Sandra Bullock I’m a huge fan.  She’s hot. She’s really cute.”

But she’s got a little warning for Jesse’s current fiancee, Kat Von D,

“Kat, run for your life!” she said. “He is a cheater. You cannot change a man. You know you cannot change a leopard’s spot. Once a cheater always a cheater. He cheated on a beautiful woman like Sandra Bullock, like, what makes you think he’s not going to cheat on you.”

I find Michelle repulsive, but she is right.  But you know what?  Kat deserves what she gets.

Photo: DJDM/WENN

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